Many parents and educators agree children need to take risks. In one US study
, 82% of the 1,400 parents surveyed agreed the benefits of tree-climbing outweighed the potential risk of injury.
Parents cited benefits including perseverance, sharing, empowerment and self-awareness. One parent thought it allowed her son to learn what his whole body was capable of.
Taking risks and succeeding can motivate
children to seek further achievements. Failing can lead to testing new ideas, and finding personal capabilities and limits. In this way, children can overcome fears
and build new skills.
We mentored a group of educators in a research project
trialling how to best introduce kids to risk.
Parents can use some of the lessons these educators learnt to help their own children take more risks and challenge themselves.
What was the research?
Adamstown Community Early Learning and Preschool (NSW) wanted to conduct research around risky play. “Risky play” is a term which has evolved from a trend to get more children out into nature to experience challenging environments.
Adamstown wanted to find out whether adult intervention to promote safe risk-taking
would play a significant role in developing children’s risk competence.
Educators engaged children in conversations about risk, asked prompting questions and helped them assess potential consequences.
The Adamstown research built on 2007 Norwegian research that identified six categories
of risky play:
- play at great heights, where children climb trees or high structures such as climbing frames in a playground
- play at high speed, such as riding a bike or skateboarding down a steep hill or swinging fast
- play with harmful tools, like knives or highly supervised power tools to create woodwork
- play with dangerous elements, such as fire or bodies of water
- rough and tumble play, where children wrestle or play with impact, such as slamming bodies into large crash mats
- play where you can “disappear”, where children can feel they’re not being watched by doing things like enclosing themselves in cubbies built of sheets or hiding in bushes (while actually being surreptitiously supervised by an adult).
The educators examined their practices in these areas to see how and whether they were engaging children in risky play, and how children were responding.
Here are five lessons educators learnt that parents can apply at home.
1. Have real conversations with children (don’t just give them instructions)
Adamstown educators found children were more likely to attempt risky play when adults talked to them about planning for, and taking, risks.
Parents can use similar strategies with their children, helping them question what they are doing and why.
Phrases like “be careful” don’t tell children what to do. Instead, say things like
That knife is very sharp. It could cut you and you might bleed. Only hold it by the handle and cut down towards the chopping board.
Equally, praise with meaning, using phrases like
You cut the cake, thinking about how you held the knife and didn’t slip or cut yourself. Well done!
It is important for children to provide insight into their own problem solving. You could ask their thoughts on what might happen if they used the knife incorrectly or what safety measures they could put in place. This will help develop
their risk competence.
2. Introduce risk gradually
Allow your children to try new things by slowly increasing the levels of difficulty.
At Adamstown, a process of introducing children to fire spanned nine months. First – on the advice of an early childhood education consultant – they introduced tea-light candles at meal times. This then moved to a small fire bowl in the sandpit, before children were introduced to a large open fire pit.
The fire pit is now used for many reasons. In winter, children sit around it in a circle and tell stories. Educators show them cooking skills, referencing the ways Australia’s First Nations People cook. The fire pit is also used to create charcoal for art.
Children have been made aware of the safe distance they need to keep and about the potential hazard of smoke inhalation.
During the research process, as children were introduced to more risk, there were no more injuries than before and all were minor. There were also no serious incidents such as broken bones, or events requiring immediate medical attention.
3. Assume all your children are competent – regardless of gender
Adamstown educators were surprised to discover that, although they weren’t excluding girls from risky play, the data indicated they challenged and invited participation more often with boys.
Parents may hold intrinsic biases they are not necessarily aware of. So, check yourself to see if you are:
- allowing boys to be more independent
- assuming boys are more competent or girls don’t really want to take as many risks
- dressing girls in clothes that limit their freedom to climb
- saying different things to boys and girls.
4. Be close-by but allow children to have a sense of autonomy
Children don’t always want to be supervised. Search for opportunities to allow them to feel as if they are alone, or out of sight. Be close-by, but allow them to think they are playing independently.
5. Discuss risk at times that don’t directly involve it
When walking together to the shops, talk about the risks involved in crossing roads, such as fast cars. You can note safe and unsafe situations as well as encouraging your child to notice these as you go about your daily life. This can also be done in relaxed situations like in the bath.
This way, when the time comes for your child to learn a new skill like crossing the road alone, they have already had some opportunity to consider measures to keep themselves safe in a non-stressful situation.
If your child has a fall or other mishap, when everything is settled again, ask your child about why it happened and how they might suggest it could be prevented next time.
Author Bios: Linda Newman is an Associate Professor and Nicole Leggett is a Senior Lecturer both at the University of Newcastle
This article was written with Kate Higginbottom, Service Director and Nominated Supervisor at Adamstown Community Early Learning and Preschool Centre.